Do you ever feel God actually change your heart towards
something? I mean, you start off feeling a certain way and then God uses His
Spirit dwelling within and His holy Word to change how you feel?
That has happened to me in regards to our neighbors. I grew
up in a home where there was a lot of drama (to say the least). One thing I
learned very early in life was to be leery of the neighbors. They are usually
nosey, gossips, opinionated, and want nothing more than to judge our family.
So now that I am grown, I have lived in three different
locations (two houses and one apartment) and I have never been friendly with my neighbors. Well, we currently have one
set that we talk to when we are in the yard, but we are not “friends”.
In reading the book ‘Radical’ and with the study that has
happened to write this 31 Days of Good News blog series…God has changed my
heart towards my neighbors. Just look
how many times this phrase “love your neighbor” appears in the Bible, starting
all the way back in Leviticus.
You shall not take vengeance, nor bear any grudge against
the children of your people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself: I am
the LORD. Leviticus 19:18
Let none of you think evil in your heart against your
neighbor; And do not love a false oath. For all these are
things that I hate,’ Says the LORD.” Zechariah 8:17
“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your
neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, love your enemies, bless
those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who
spitefully use you and persecute you, Matthew 5:43-44
‘Honor your
father and your mother,’ and,
‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’”
Matthew 19:19
Jesus said to him, “‘You
shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with
all your mind.’ This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: ‘You shall
love your neighbor as yourself.’ Matthew 22:37-39
‘You shall love
your neighbor as yourself.’
There is no other commandment greater than these.” Mark 12:31
So he answered and said, “‘You shall love the LORD your God with all your
heart, with all your soul, with
all your strength, and with all your mind,’ and ‘your neighbor as yourself.’”
Luke 10:27
For the commandments, “You shall not commit adultery,” “You
shall not murder,” “You shall not steal,” “You shall not bear false witness,” “You
shall not covet,” and if there is any other commandment, are all summed up in
this saying, namely, “You shall love
your neighbor as yourself.”
Romans 13:9
For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this:
“You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”
Galatians 5:14
So I have decided, with a not-so-gentle nudge to pray for
our neighbors. Sounds easy enough, right? However, in reading and writing so
much about spreading the Good News, I would also love an opportunity to share the
gospel. So here is what God has put on my heart.
I am going to let my neighbors know that we are praying for
them. Last night I was torn between going door to door and actually talk with
them (we do not live in a neighborhood, but on a pretty busy street which makes
it logistically more difficult – but still) or just send them something in the mail.
This morning, while lying in bed (usually when the Holy
Spirit takes gives me a lot of prompting) I felt like going door to door would
be the best option and to hand deliver the letter. Saves postage, right? This will actually give
me the opportunity to meet them in person (if they are home), be an example to
our daughter (who I will take with me) and give them a letter that tells a
little about our family and that we are going to start to pray for them. Maybe I'll even take them some cookies to sweeten the deal.
We
will pray for their families in a general way at first unless they tell us of a specific need (which I
am hoping they will share).
In our small group discussion last night, we talked about
what it would look like if we were missionaries living in another country.
Picture it with me. Your “occupation” would be missionary. You would look and
act differently than others in the area that you are living. Because you would
be so different, the locals would be curious. They would learn they could come
to you when they need help, prayer and even to hear about the Bible and its
power.
We are missionaries in our own neighborhoods. We need to
look and act so differently from “the world” that our neighbors know we are
different – and spark their curiosity. There are hurting people all around us. Do
they know they can come to you for help, prayer and to hear about the Bible and
its power? We worry too much about what others think. We need to worry about
what God thinks.
Speaking of the people named in the “Hall of Faith” in the
book of Hebrews, the author describes them as strangers and pilgrims on the
Earth. As Christians, we are all pilgrims on the Earth. Our home is in heaven. Therefore,
we should not worry if we “fit in” with the world. We should worry more if we
do fit in when Christ as called us to be different.
These all died in faith, not having received the promises,
but having seen them afar off were assured of them,
embraced them and confessed
that
they were strangers and pilgrims
on the earth.
Hebrews 11:13
Do not love the world or the things in the world.
If anyone
loves the world,
the love of the Father is not in him.
1 John 2:15